Do you want one?

Why do girls want a boyfriend?

1. Certain girls look for someone who they can rely on, in other words, someone they want to confide in as a male. Just someone that is always there.
2. Some however, look for someone whom you just want to have fun with, in order words, when you want to have a fling.
3. Others look for life mate. (Which I’m not going to discuss about)
4. Most of the girls of our age look for a boyfriend. You know, just for a purpose of showing off to your peers and to have that male influence in your life. (I’m not talking about like a male figure, like your father type of influence.)
5. Maybe some when you have nothing better to do.

Well, if you ask me, I want to have a boyfriend because of I want a male influence in my life that will always be there for me. I want my boyfriend to be my best friend. Not an easy thing.

Most male will think that when they go into a relationship with a female, it’s for a joy of it. They like to think the fact that when they go into a relationship is because the girl likes them. So, it helps with the relationship because the girl is willing to sacrifice things in the relationship.

Another group of males would naturally go for the woman because they like them. I think it’s pretty common nowadays.

But a minority of men is clingy. I hate clingy guys because it makes them vulnerable and that can never be good. When they get clingy, they tend to irritate the skin out of me. You know, with the over used gestures and endearments. Make my hair stand if you ask me.

However, for most people that I know. We have the basic concept of ‘I don’t need a man in my life.’ Ok girls, you can say that now but you cannot say it when you’re hitting late 20s.

I still belong to that category for the simple fact that I do not need them to lead my life. I’m sure they add spice into my boring life but let’s just say, I do not need my life to be complicated now.

On the contrary, I know that sometimes in our hearts, we want a man. It’s not a NEED but it’s a WANT. Something that says a lot, because it makes us more desperate, I guess.

Sometimes, you want a man because like I said someone whom you can show off to your friends etc. I guess it’s a naturally thing to think about.

However, advice to certain girls, do not, I repeat, do not, be desperate enough to accept anyone that comes your way. You might end up regretting it. You might loose your cool and knowing that you’ll turn back in the near future, you will think you are a silly, desperate girl.

Not only that, you make yourself vulnerable in men’s eyes. They will take advantage of that fact.

Sometimes it’s best if you can stand on your own but remember to lean on others if you need to. It’s called pampering, just don’t do it too often.

~ by hanistar on FebruaryUTCbThu, 28 Feb 2008 23:45:37 +0000000000pmThu, 28 Feb 2008 23:45:37 +000008 12, 2008.